100 Questions for Long-Distance Couples (with a Random Question Generator)

How to use these questions

• One question per call. Start with it, then let the conversation go wherever it goes.
• Both answer. Take turns asking and answering, and don't skip your own turn.
• Send one by text. Copy a question and send it when you can't call. You'll have something to talk about later.
• Match the mood. Fun questions for tired evenings, deep ones when you've got time.

25 deep questions for long-distance couples

For the late-night calls when you've got time and you want to really talk.

1. What's something you've never told anyone but would like to tell me?
2. When did you first feel like you could really trust me?
3. What's one fear you have about us being apart?
4. What makes you feel most loved when we can't be together?
5. What's a memory of us you replay when you miss me?
6. What part of your day do you wish I could see?
7. What have you learned about yourself since we've been long distance?
8. When do you miss me the most?
9. What's a small thing I do that means more to you than I know?
10. What would you change about how we talk to each other?
11. What's something you're proud of that you haven't celebrated yet?
12. What did your family teach you about love?
13. When did you feel really understood by me?
14. What's something you're struggling with right now that you haven't mentioned?
15. How do you want me to support you on a bad day when I can't hug you?
16. What does home mean to you?
17. What's something you used to believe that you've changed your mind about?
18. What do you think makes our relationship work?
19. What's the hardest goodbye we've had so far?
20. What's something about you that you think I still don't fully understand?
21. What do you need more of from me right now?
22. When do you feel most like yourself?
23. What's a dream you've been too shy to say out loud?
24. If I could only remember one thing about you, what would you want it to be?
25. How has being apart changed the way you love me?

25 fun questions for long-distance couples

For tired weeknights, long drives on speaker, or when the call needs a laugh.

1. If you could teleport to me right now, what's the first thing we'd do?
2. What's the weirdest thing you've eaten this week?
3. If our relationship were a movie, what would it be called?
4. Which of my habits would you steal if you could?
5. What's your most useless talent?
6. If we swapped lives for a day, what would you do first in my city?
7. What's the most embarrassing song on your playlist?
8. Which fictional couple are we most like?
9. What would your perfect lazy Sunday look like?
10. If you had to eat one meal every day for a year, what would it be?
11. What's the funniest thing that happened to you this week?
12. Which emoji describes your day today?
13. If we had a pet together, what would we name it?
14. What job would you be terrible at?
15. What's the strangest dream you remember?
16. If you could master one skill overnight, what would it be?
17. What's the best gift you've ever received?
18. Who would play me in a movie about us?
19. What's a food combo you love that other people find gross?
20. If you could live in any decade, which would you pick?
21. What's your go-to karaoke song?
22. What's the most spontaneous thing you've ever done?
23. If a theme song played every time you walked into a room, what would it be?
24. What would your superhero name be?
25. What's something you're weirdly competitive about?

25 flirty questions for long-distance couples

Sweet, a little cheeky, and guaranteed to make the distance feel smaller.

1. What was your first impression of me?
2. When did you realise you had a crush on me?
3. What's your favourite thing I wear?
4. What's the first thing you noticed about me?
5. Which photo of me do you look at the most?
6. What's your favourite way for me to say goodnight?
7. What's a compliment from me you still think about?
8. What's your favourite memory of kissing me?
9. What do you miss most about being next to me?
10. What would our perfect date look like when we're together again?
11. What's something I do that you find really attractive?
12. When did you last blush because of me?
13. What song makes you think of me?
14. What's the cutest thing I've done without realising it?
15. If I were with you right now, what would we be doing?
16. What's your favourite feature of mine?
17. What's the most romantic thing you've ever done for someone?
18. Where would you take me on a surprise date?
19. What text from me always makes you smile?
20. What's your favourite nickname for me?
21. What should I wear when we see each other next?
22. What's the first thing you want to do the moment we're in the same room?
23. What's the most romantic moment we've had so far?
24. Do you remember what you thought when I first said I love you?
25. How would you describe me to someone who's never met me?

25 future questions for long-distance couples

For when you want to talk about closing the distance and the life you're building.

1. Where do you see us living in five years?
2. What's the first thing we should do when we finally live in the same place?
3. What does our ideal weekend look like once we close the distance?
4. Which city would you love us to live in together?
5. What's one trip we have to take together?
6. How do you imagine our home looking?
7. What's a tradition you want us to start?
8. What do you want our first night in our own place to be like?
9. How should we celebrate our next anniversary?
10. What's something you want us to learn together?
11. How will we split the chores? Be honest.
12. What's one goal you want us to reach this year?
13. What do you want our relationship to feel like in ten years?
14. City, seaside or countryside: where should we end up?
15. What's something from your family you want to keep in ours?
16. How do you feel about pets in our future?
17. What would a perfect holiday season together look like?
18. What's the next thing we should save up for?
19. What would you want to tell us a year from now?
20. Which of our friends do you hope stay in our lives forever?
21. How do we make sure we keep dating each other once we live together?
22. What's a worry about the future you want us to talk about?
23. What's one thing you'd never want us to stop doing?
24. When do you think we'll close the distance, and what needs to happen first?
25. What will you miss about long distance once it's over?